Saturday, 11 April 2015

Khaulah bint Tha'labah

His full name is Khaulah bint Tha'labah bin Ashram bin Ghanam Farah bin Tha'labah bin 'Auf. He grew as an eloquent and intelligent woman. He was married to Saamit bin Qais bin Aus, brother of Ubadah bin Saamit something from 'anhu, who always accompanies the battle of Badr and Uhud battle and follow the rest of the war Messenger of Allaah alaihi wasallam. With this Aus Khaulah bore boy named Rabi '.

Once Khaulah bint Tha'labah find her husband, Aus bin Saamit in a problem that makes Aus angry, he said, "I have you as my mother's back."

Then Worn out after saying those words and sit with people for some time. Furthermore Aus back to Khaulah and wants. However, awareness and sensitivity Khaulah heart makes refused Aus, to clear the law of Allah on the above events.

Khaulah said, "No ... do not! For the sake of the soul Khaulah was in his hand, you should not menjamahku because you have to say something that you have spoken to me so that Allah and His Messenger who decide the law of the events that befall us.

Furthermore Khaulah to the
Prophet, then he recounted the events that befell him with her husband.

Purpose of his arrival is to ask the fatwa and dialogue with the Prophet about the affair. The Messenger of Allaah alaihi wasallam said, "We have not received such an order relating to thee ... I do not see but you already forbidden for him."

This mukminah woman repeating his words and explain to the
Prophet about what happened to him and his son, if he had divorced her husband, but the Prophet Shalalahu 'alaihi wasallam remains replied, "I do not see but you have forbidden him".

After the incident mukminah woman is always raised her hands to the sky while his second in stored sadness and distress.

Both eyes shed tears and regret. Then he prayed, "O Allah! I complain to you about the events that happened to me".

How wonderful what the Sahabiyah Khaulah something from 'anha, she stood before the
Prophet then a dialogue to ask for a fatwa. After the fall of the fatwa, against him beliaupun do istighatha (for help) and complained only to Allah. It signifies the clarity of faith and the unity that has been learned from the Prophet.

Unceasingly pray that this woman once
Prophet unconscious (as usually he fainted when he received the revelation). Then after the Prophet regained consciousness, he said, "O Khaulah, indeed has lowered the Qur'anic verse about you and your husband, then he read the word of QS. Al-Mujadalah: 1-4, which means: "Allah has heard the woman who filed a lawsuit to you about her husband, and denounce [the case] to God. And God heard the question and answer between you two. Allah is All-Hearing, All-Seeing, ... until the words of God: "and for the unbelievers there is a painful torment."

Prophet explain to Khaulah of expiation (ransom) Zhihar:Prophet: "Tell him (husband Khaulah) to free a slave!"

Khaulah: "O Messenger of Allah he does not have a slave who could he free."

Prophet: "If so commanded him to fasting two consecutive months."

Khaulah: "By Allah, he is a man who is not strong do fasting."

The Prophet:" Tell him to feed as many as 60 of the dates of the poor. "

Khaulah:" By Allah, O Messenger of Allah he does not have it. "

Prophet: "I'll help with the half."

Khaulah: "I help the other half of the Messenger of Allah."

Prophet: "You're right and good then go and palm it as expiation for him, then Associate with children it is a good uncle."Khaulahpun then execute it.

Such a story about sahabiyah who filed a case that occurred in the household to Rasululllah, the case Khaulah and her husband is the problem first occurred on Muslims. It includes a lot of lessons.Furthermore, this sahabiyah during the reign of Caliph Umar, Umar never stop when running. He then gives advice to Umar.

Khaulah said, "O Umar, I have known since ancient name was Umair (Umar) when you are in the market Ukazh you herding goats with your wand. Then pass, day after day, so you have the name of Commander of the Faithful, then fear Allah regarding your people.

Know anyone who fear so much will be close to him and anyone who fear death then he will be afraid to lose and whoever confident of reckoning that he was afraid of the wrath of God. "He said that while Umar stood and bowed his head and heard his words .

But al-Jarud al-Abdi accompanying Umar could not tolerate this, then said to Khaulah, "You have been talking a lot (outrageous) to the Commander of the Faithful, O woman.!"

Hearing this Umar reprimanded al-Jarud reply, "Let him ... do you know who is he? He is Khaulah that God heard his words from the seventh heaven, then Umar is entitled to listen to his words. "In another narration Umar said, "By Allah, if he does not finish his advice to me until night, then I will not wrap so that he finish it pleases, unless it has come time to pray, then I will do the prayer, then re-listen to completed its requirements. " 

- Book Nisaa 'Haular Rasuul, works Mahmud Mahdi al-Istanbuli and Mustafa Abu-Nasr an ash-Syalabi.

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