Saturday, 11 April 2015

Umm Ruman

She faith, worship and emigrate. He gave goodness to God and His Apostle in his Islam, until he receive the promise, "Anyone who wants to see an angel, then look at this woman."

Umm Ruman bintu 'Amr bin' Uwaimir son of Abdi Shams ibn 'Itab bin Udzainah son Sabi' bin Al-Harith bin Duhman bin Ghanm bin Malik bin Al-Kinaniyah Kinanah radi 'anha [~ nasab Umm Ruman from father to Kinanah much disputed by the Experts dates, but they agreed that he of Bani Ghanm bin Malik bin Kinanah ~] is the best man's wife after the prophet of this people sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, Abu Bakr Ash-Siddiq.

Before coming to the Islamic period, Um Ruman was the wife of 'Abdullah ibn al-Harith bin Sakhbarah son Jurtsumatil Khair ibn' Adiyah ibn Murrah al-Azdi. Allaah gave them a boy named Ath-Thufail. They live in As-Sura. After a time, Abdullah brought his wife to Makkah to live there. As was the custom at that time, the settlers allied with the authorities of Mecca that can protect it. So even 'Abdullah ibn al-Harith. He allied with Abu Bakr Ash-Siddiq.

But Umm Ruman must meet with reality, Abdullah left him for ever. After the death of Abdullah bin Al-Harith, Abu Bakr radi 'anhu came and brought Umm Ruman ask for her hand in his home life. Allaah bestows this couple Abdurrahman and 'Aisha.

Today continues to roll, until the light of Islam broke in Makkah. Abu Bakr Ash-Siddiq was the first to justify treatise. Not to forget Umm Ruman expressed his faith and helped berbaiat to the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.

Laden family blessings. When their daughter, 'Aisha was six years old, came the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam to woo' Aisha. Be the daughter of Umm Ruman is a woman full of glory as the Mother of the Faithful. But then, 'Aisha remained in the care of her father, in a family full of goodness, until it's time to move down command.

At that time, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam and Abu Bakr radi' anhu first set out to move, while Umm Ruman Abu Bakr and his family still lived in Makkah. It was only after the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam lived while in Medina, he sent Zaid bin Haritha and Abu Rafi' radi 'anhuma to pick up his family, armed with 500 dirhams and two camels. Abu Bakr also sent Abdullah bin 'Uraiqith with two or three camels, and wrote a letter to his son, Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr, to bring Umm Ruman along with' Aisha and Asma`. They were heading for Medina together. At that time, Zaid and Abu Rafi 'bring Fatima, Umm Kulthum, and Sauda bintu Zam'ah. Zaid also pick up his wife and daughter, Umm Ayman and Usamah bin Zaid.

Upon arrival in Medina, Abu Bakr family remained in the village of Bani Al-Harith ibn al-Khazraj. One day, 'Aisha who was then nine-year-old is enjoying the game together with his playmates. Suddenly Umm Ruman came calling. 'Aisha immediately come without knowing what she was calling. Umm Ruman took her hand 'Aisha who still panting it to the doorsteps. He took a bit of water, wiped her face and head, and then invited 'Aisha entered. It turns out that there has gathered the women of Ansar. They greet 'Aisha with a prayer of blessing. Umm Ruman submit 'Ayesha in their dressing immediately' Aisha. It turns out that day is a special day, when the daughter of Um Ruman meeting with the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, her husband.

Umm Ruman still accompany her daughter's life. Even when the news spread lies about 'Aisha who rocked household of the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam, after he was out of the battle of Bani Al-Mushthaliq. 'Aisha who participated in the trip, since his return fell ill to not knowing a whole month until the outstanding issues concerning him. He just felt awkward with the attitude of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam is so cool. He did not feel the touch of softness of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam as he used to do when' Aisha was ill. But ultimately, to precisely the news to the ears' of Umm Aisha Mishthah. Parahlah accrue sick 'Aisha.

When the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam him,' Aisha was asked for permission to stay temporarily with his parents. He wants to look for certainty about the spread news of them. Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam allow it.

In the presence of his mother, 'Aisha said, "O mother, what exactly is being talked about people?" With no less sad heart, Um Ruman calming' Aisha, "Calm down, O my daughter. By Allah, very rarely a beautiful woman on the side of a husband who loved him so much, while he has a honey, but he will be discussed. "

"Subhan Allah!" Said 'Aishah, "That's right people talking about it?" Break cry' Aisha that night without interruption until dawn. The tears did not stop flowing. 'Aisha was still crying.

Until the end, Allaah sends down from the sky statement about the sanctity himself from false accusations that exhaled by the munafikin in paragraphs 11 to 19 of Surah An-Nuur.

Umm Ruman, Ash-Siddiq's wife, the mother of Ash-Shiddiqah back to before his Lord at the time of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, to leave plenty of kindness. When his body was lowered into the grave, the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Anyone who wants to see an angel of heaven, then look at Umm Ruman." Umm Ruman bintu' Amir, may Allah pleased with her .... 

 - Al-Ishabah, by Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar al-'Asqalani (8 / 206-209);

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